Matching · resonance
Find the shape that
matches yours.
Not Tinder. Not OkCupid. A space where what you swipe on is what people offer — not how they look. Your iris does the introduction.
How it works
- 01
Take the iris test
Three minutes. We map your kink across six dimensions — bondage, impact, power, voyeurism, sensory, roleplay.
- 02
Opt in to resonance
Discoverable only if you choose. You can switch it off at any time, your iris stays yours either way.
- 03
Swipe on the iris, not the face
Each profile shows their archetype, a short quote, their three strongest dimensions. Photo is optional and never first.
- 04
Mutual yes opens a thread
You both swiped yes? You can send a card — one of the Card Game prompts — as an opener instead of writing 'hey'.
House rules
- No photo before mutual yes. Profiles lead with words, not selfies.
- Pseudonym by default. Use your real name only if you want to.
- You can pause your iris from being shown at any time, no questions asked.
- Hard limits never appear on your public profile.
- No bots, no paid boosts, no algorithm choosing who you see — only kink compatibility.
Common questions
- Is it free?
- Yes. No premium, no boosts, no paywall on the matching. We're a tool, not a marketplace.
- Can I match without showing my face?
- Yes. Photo is optional and never required to be visible. Most profiles lead with the iris glyph and an archetype.
- Is my swipe data private?
- Yes. Your iris is yours. Only the mutual yes is shared with the other person — not which specific cards you swiped.
Take the iris test →
3 minutes · then opt in to resonance when you're ready