One word
ends anything.
Free BDSM safewords. Red stops everything. Yellow slows. A word of your own, Mira, marble, anything, is yours alone. Set them once, share them with a tap, never start a scene without them.
A simple grammar.
Red. Full stop.
Everything ends here. No questions, no negotiation in the moment. Care kicks in immediately.
Yellow. Slow down.
Pause and check in. Maybe a smaller act, maybe a break, maybe just water and a pause. Talk, then decide.
Your word.
A word that only means stop for you. Useful if red is part of the scene, or if you just want something more yours.
Because no is sometimes part of the play.
If stop can be part of the script, you need a word that is not. Safewords are the layer underneath the play, and they stay constant even when the language on top is performance.
The traffic light system is the most widely used because it gives you two speeds : a hard stop and a check in. Both matter. People often skip yellow and reach red later than they should. We surface yellow as much as red.
Pick yours, share them with a partner in one tap, and revise whenever. The list lives on your phone and updates in their view automatically.
Set your words
in a minute.
Free. Write them once, share them with one tap.